Lexical Definition

‎אָפַק‎ ʼâphaq (aw-fak') to refrain H:V
a primitive root

force (oneself), restrain.

1) to hold, be strong, restrain, hold back
1a) (Hithpael)
1a1) to restrain oneself, refrain
1a2) to force, compel oneself

See Greek: ἀνέχομαι · ἐγκρατεύομαι

Usage: 7 forms in 7 verses
Form Translated As     In Verse(s)
תִתְאַפַּ֖ק will you restrain yourself Isa.64.12
לְהִתְאַפֵּ֗ק to restrain himself Gen.45.1
וָֽאֶתְאַפַּ֔ק and I forced myself 1Sam.13.12
וַיִּתְאַפַּ֣ק and he restrained himself Esth.5.10
וַיִּ֨תְאַפַּ֔ק and he restrained himself Gen.43.31
הִתְאַפָּֽקוּ they have restrained themselves Isa.63.15
אֶתְאַפָּ֑ק I have restrained myself Isa.42.14

Brown-Driver-Briggs

[‎אָפַק‎] verb hold, be strong (so Thes who compare Arabic excel = multum valuit; MV compare also ) — only Hithpa`el Perfect 3 plural ‎הִתְאַפָּ֑קוּ‎ Isa 63:15 Imperfect ‎וַיִּתְאַפַק‎ Gen 43:21; Esth 5:10 2 masculine singular ‎תִּתְאַפַּק‎ Isa 64:11* ‎אֶתְאַפָּ֑ק‎ Isa 42:14 ‎וָאֶתְאַפַּק‎ 1Sam 13:12

1. force, compel oneself 1Sam 13:12.

2. restrain oneself, refrain Gen 43:31; Gen 45:1; Isa 42:14; Esth 5:10 of ‎׳‎‎י‎ Isa 64:11* of Yahweh's compassion Isa 63:15, ‎מֵעֶיךָ וְרַחֲמֶיךָ‎ ‎אֵלַי הִתְּאַפָּ֑קוּ‎ (almost passive).

Brown-Driver-Briggs References

Book Refs
Genesis 43:21 · 43:31 · 45:1
1 Samuel 13:12
Esther 5:10
Isaiah 42:14 · 63:15 · 64:11*